
Russell Armstrong’s beloved grandmother, Jean Anders, was possibly the last person to speak to Russell before he ended his life on Monday. In an exclusive interview with RumorFix, Jean says she was very close to Russell and Taylor, and believes that their participation on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills led to the end of their marriage, and ultimately to Russell’s tragic suicide.
“We spoke on the phone on Friday night and he said ‘Grandma, I have the biggest decision to make, I’m out of options, I need help and I just don’t know what to do anymore’. And I told him to trust in Jesus, put your faith in him and it will be OK. And I said I was praying for him and he said he was praying too.”
She continues, “And then on Saturday at around 7 p.m. I spoke to him again, and he seemed much more calm. He said he had come to a decision at last. He said he was going to leave. And I thought he meant leave California, or maybe his marriage – I didn’t realize he meant he was going to end his life. I didn’t think he would ever do that.”
Jean says that despite online reports to the contrary, her grandson wasn’t the monster some in the press are making him out to be. “He was such a wonderful person, such a loving father and husband. He looked after his children, Aiden too. He loved them so much.”

As for his troubled marriage with Taylor, Jean adds, “He gave her everything. She used to be such a very sweet, normal girl but then they went on that show and he couldn’t give her what she wanted anymore. He told her they couldn’t afford it – when you start spending $6000 on a handbag, that’s a big problem. She would leave Kennedy with the nanny all day while she was filming, that’s all she did. She just got too involved and she was spending so much money.”
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While no one can argue that their relationship was trouble, Russell’s grandmother says their feelings for one another were certainly genuine. “They really did love each other very much. I’m sure there were spats, but I never saw him violent towards anyone. Not ever. My heart goes out to Taylor, I don’t think she really understands what has happened yet. It’s all such a shock. I don’t think she will ever find a man who will love her as much as Russell did and take care of her the way he did. His family was his life.”
As for how she’s coping with things, Jean reveals, “I have no bitterness in my heart. When things like this happen you just have to stand still and have faith. We all loved him so very much.”